Firstly my dear girl, don't come and tell me that you're coming home to 'no one'. When we're home, you choose to stay out, when you're out, you choose to come home late. And then when you're home, you alwiz complain and say that you're tired... and when it comes to getting your allowance?! You wanna get it on time and get pestering when you don't.
Like what you mentioned, lemme quote,"
though i admit many a times that i do come home late, i am coming home earlier now." Unquote. MY question back to you know is SINCE WHEN?! You alwiz, and I say again, alwiz come home definitely past 9pm. And when you're home, you don't wanna do anything. You go straight into your room and then turn on the laptop, either to do your work or watch videos, or whatever it may be. Then all the clothes outside I would suppose would magically fold by itself is it?!
And mind you, you're the only one in this house that gets your allowance based on housework ok! I get shit!
I'm being frank here. I'm helping out with the housework based on me, being in my own home, and clearing up after myself and helping out in whatever way I can. What do I benefit from doing the housework?! Yes, I get the 'knowledge' so that in future it may be useful, but then?! What else?! NOTHING!!
As for you, you get allowances based on this. Coming home late, not wanting to do your chores, and then expecting your money to just roll in? This is ridiculous ok. The times when the clothes have been washed and hanged, who did it?! No one notices. Sometimes while waiting for you to come and help out, we start folding ourselves, until everything finishes, not even a word of thanks comes from you!
I'm not trying to be picky or whatever, but I'm just trying to state facts here. You are living in this household, as one family member, and I only think that it is fair to do your fair share of housework ok! When it comes to washing of dishes, hanging of clothes, I'm the one who's most of the time doing it.
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even the one person i come home looking forward to, is no longer there.my own sister.she is now in her own world." Come on ok! What do you mean I'm in my own world?! I've got a life, be it social, love, work or Gakkai. I need my space, like what you alwiz mention. People needs their own space to do what they wanna do. Sometimes I come home and when I share with you things that are happening to me, you don't even seem bothered, so why the hell am I sharing?! Then when I don't, you come back and tell me that I'm being 'cold' or whatever you wanna call it.
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she would say that she is very tired after work and wants to rest.so why doesn't anyone ask her to hang or fold the clothes?" Then what the hell was I doing last night?! The clothes flew up there and hung itself is it?! OMG, come on la, wake up and smell the air!
I know how to 'automatically' help out with things in the house ok. Furthermore, THEY ARE NOT EVEN MY CLOTHES!!! You ask yourself... (Don't make it blare it all out here! I'm staring to get real damn pissed.) So why the hell am I clearing up after all your shit! Do I need to?! My job?!
Haiz... pls ok. Wake up. Look around you. Reflect. It's not that no one cares about you or whatever. When we wanna go out for dinner, asking you along, ask yourself what you tell us in response. You either say that it's too rushing, or you no time, or too tired, or whatever! But in the end?! Went to Jurong Point, watch movie, go out, or whatever it may be! So who's fault is it that you're coming home late?! Mine?!
You choose the path and the decisions yourself, no one forced you to do anything! Unless someone else did. But other than that, no one! The door at home is alwiz open. You've got the key when it's locked. This is your home! I don't understand why you don't wanna choose to come home but to spend $$ outside just to keep yourself company! Isn't that being silly?! If you ask me, I would rather choose to be home most of the time cos you don't have to think about what to do, where to go, who to meet, and the best part is, you don't need to spend money using the things at home! Nintendo Wii, massaging chair, your DS, my PSP, our rabbit, THE GOHONZON... this are the things you can do while you're home what. This is what is at home to keep you company with no hidden costs when using them, and no charges required! Understand anot?!
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i feel dislodged from my family." and lastly, I HATE IT WHEN U SAY THAT!!!
No one is dislodging you from the family. You choose the path yourself, like I mentioned earlier. You're the one who wants to go out with JB, or whoever, and no one forced you not to come out with your family, spend time with your family. Right now, all of us have our own mission. Including you! We all have our own responsibilities. Including you as well. So please, know your priorities, come back home AFTER school when you're supposed to. We're giving you an inch, don't ever try to take a mile! When you're supposed to come home, you come home! Once in a while, it's ok. But don't ever use the 'coming-home-late-being-very-tired' kinda crap with me! I'll say it one more time, and I won't repeat it unless in your face!
YOU CHOOSE THIS PATH YOURSELF. DON'T GIVE EXCUSES WHEN THINGS TURN OUT DIFFERENT.
You're a student, you don't get paid, you get allowances. Deal with it! Come home when you're supposed to. Go out when you're supposed to. I'm sure you'll hate it when we start implementing curfews! I had it when I was your age! I don't see why things should be any different now! But you've no curfew cos we tot you've grown up. But I guess we're wrong!
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